Comments on: Practicing what YOU! preached.

By: tara

tara — Wed, 28 May 2008 07:48:21 +0000

Hey, I’m a little behind on my blog reading, but I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed this post!

By: Kat with a K

Kat with a K — Wed, 14 May 2008 19:22:58 +0000

I’m glad things are improving for you. I’m in the middle of moving and so going crazy, but I’m hoping to work on a lot of the things you’re talking about once I get settled.

By: Bev

Bev — Fri, 02 May 2008 05:53:51 +0000

When all else fails, you are allowed to “lower your standards.” Children really are temporary in the big scheme of life. It all gets easier as they get older and you get more confident. Have another and compound the chaos. Then, when they get old enough, you will suddenly realize you have control, and you will wish you had enjoyed the young years a little more– although I think it is impossible to be comfortable with both the chaos and the kids. Bev– wishing I had enjoyed my children’s childhood a bit more– they are 16 & 20 and might as well be 30.

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 01 May 2008 16:25:30 +0000

What a great update, Wendy. I especially love (and try to live by) #7. Now that Jacob is almost 3, and so obviously learning *everything* we do, intentional or not, it’s easier to keep in mind.

Things are going well with me at the moment, but we’ve got two monster changes coming up, so ask me again in 4 months!

By: Erin

Erin — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 00:45:32 +0000

You’re a treasure, Wendy. Such a thoughtful, inspiring post. I love the hope in it.

By: Lorajean

Lorajean — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 23:00:21 +0000

This was such a great post to read. I’m a week past my due date with no baby in site it seems! I’ve been trying to be very present, and this was a great reminder at how to be here and now. Thanks!

By: Marlena

Marlena — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 18:16:19 +0000

Wow! Reading that post makes me feel so much better. I’ve been feeling a little over-extended and overwhelmed, and hearing someone write so plainly about ways to not stress out about it all the time has made me think differently. Thanks! And good point about the friends… I know my friends and family would be there for me in a minute if I needed them, it’s just that somehow I always felt shame in having to ask. I’m so glad to read someone else say the same thing.

By: Cyndy

Cyndy — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 14:06:54 +0000

You seem to be doing well on the balance and wisdom front. So, here’s another sock suggestion. I buy multiple pairs of the same style/color of sock. Also, if you have time, cook meals on the weekend that can be frozen/refrigerated to use during the week. Everyone eating together keeps me sane.

By: Katie

Katie — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 09:03:41 +0000

Well, I’m still trying to figure out how to get it all done and find balance and not lose my mind so I can’t really help you with that BUT, I can solve the sock problem

Get one or two of the zippered mesh bags intended for washing lingerie (I found a package of three for two bucks at my local drugstore). Pop all the tiny socks into the bag. Bag goes into washer, transfers to dryer, and ta-da! Clean socks and no singletons! Even better, all the socks are together in one place instead of scattered throughout the whole load of laundry so finding and matching them post wash is much easier. It’s a little thing - but it helps!

By: Liz K

Liz K — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 22:54:43 +0000

You’re growing some serious wisdom. I will especially spend some time meditating on (#7). I’ve let go of being the perfect mother, but I like the idea of thinking more about how my missteps and bad days can teach my kids about how they can work through their own crap.